Finding a good man (or partner, as the case may be) is not as easy as it sounds. As someone who has had the experience of finding bad ones and finally ending up with an outstanding one, I believe I can tell you that the following list is a good way to determine if the partner you’re thinking about is a good one or not. (Those of you who never had a bad one won’t get it and tend to actually throw the good ones away. Oh well, your loss is definitely our gain!) If the man or partner you’re considering has the following qualities, grab a hold and do NOT let go! I know I won’t be!
1. A really good man treats his mother well but is not a "momma's boy". If he respects his mother and remembers her birthday and Mother’s Day, he is a keeper and lets you know how he will treat you in your relationship.
2. He stands his ground and is not easily influenced by other people’s thoughts or opinions. This shows that he has strength and confidence in his decisions.
3. He is open-minded and respects other points of view.
4. He does things without being asked. When men take the incentive to help you out, it eases your stress, and it proves he really cares about your relationship.
5. Constant communication about things is important in a relationship. Without open communication, there is no relationship. There should be no secrets between two people in a relationship. He should be your best friend, and the one you feel comfortable talking about anything with.
6. A good man puts his family (including the children) first above his own needs.
7. A good man walks the walk. That's right. He isn't all about just talking and telling you what you want to hear. He follows through on what he says he will do.
8. He has good friends and allows you to have good friends. These are friends that will not try to drive a wedge between the two of you, though. They must be friends that will uplift the two of you as a couple.
9. A good man knows when to let things go and doesn't burn bridges. Vengeance isn't worth it to him, and as a result, he takes the high road. It's a true sign of class.
10. The best one of all - a good man accepts you for who you are. He's smitten with you, tells you how beautiful you are without makeup, desires you no matter what, and respects you in every way. He makes you feel good and doesn't belittle you in the relationship, and he is NEVER violent with you. A violent man does NOT really love you. How can you love someone if you’re hurting them? If you feel comfortable and happy whenever you are around him, he's a very, very good man.
A good man will love you for what you are.....right now! Watch the video below.
Trisha Yearwood "Real Live Woman"
1. A really good man treats his mother well but is not a "momma's boy". If he respects his mother and remembers her birthday and Mother’s Day, he is a keeper and lets you know how he will treat you in your relationship.
2. He stands his ground and is not easily influenced by other people’s thoughts or opinions. This shows that he has strength and confidence in his decisions.
3. He is open-minded and respects other points of view.
4. He does things without being asked. When men take the incentive to help you out, it eases your stress, and it proves he really cares about your relationship.
5. Constant communication about things is important in a relationship. Without open communication, there is no relationship. There should be no secrets between two people in a relationship. He should be your best friend, and the one you feel comfortable talking about anything with.
6. A good man puts his family (including the children) first above his own needs.
7. A good man walks the walk. That's right. He isn't all about just talking and telling you what you want to hear. He follows through on what he says he will do.
8. He has good friends and allows you to have good friends. These are friends that will not try to drive a wedge between the two of you, though. They must be friends that will uplift the two of you as a couple.
9. A good man knows when to let things go and doesn't burn bridges. Vengeance isn't worth it to him, and as a result, he takes the high road. It's a true sign of class.
10. The best one of all - a good man accepts you for who you are. He's smitten with you, tells you how beautiful you are without makeup, desires you no matter what, and respects you in every way. He makes you feel good and doesn't belittle you in the relationship, and he is NEVER violent with you. A violent man does NOT really love you. How can you love someone if you’re hurting them? If you feel comfortable and happy whenever you are around him, he's a very, very good man.
A good man will love you for what you are.....right now! Watch the video below.
Trisha Yearwood "Real Live Woman"
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